Khrystianity

If you have to question a "friend's" loyalty you should check your definition of friend! What's understood doesn't need to be explained...

Postpartum Chronicles

One thing I've noticed, for sure, is that after having a baby; especially if a person (women) know you've had a baby they're looking at your stomach...your body...how well you "snapped" back...if you have signs of carrying a baby bump for months. Don't argue with me about this science because I've seen it for myself. 

When I approach someone (that knows I've had a baby) no matter the race; the first place I see their eyes gaze upon, or gawk depending on the tact of the person lol, is my stomach. One of the first comments out of their mouth has to do with my figure. Again, it doesn't matter the race, ethnicity, or age, if they know you've had a baby they're commenting and/or observing. It's just what we naturally do, I suppose.