Sore Losers

Hurt people, hurt people. 

Simple as that; and don't let them get in their feelings. They become dangerous. They can't stand to see anyone else happy.

Social media has definitely given a new set of defining characteristics to some people that may not have had, balls, for a lack of a better words....and yet it's the perfect word. 

Now, all of a sudden people, places, and things are at our finger tips like never before. Text, emails, posts, and status updates enable "some" people to speak things that aren't as though they were! 

They get their feelings hurt in the present and attempt to dim the light of their personal misery by reaching into the past to bring up things they think will hurt someone else. Never understanding in their stupidity that there is and never was cause for embarrassment or shame when it comes to a person strong-minded and confident. 

They are sore losers! 

Misery loves company. You've heard that before. I've blogged it before. It's the same difference as hurt people, hurt people. It's hard for a person, sometimes, not all the time, to turn their back on people when they're going through their "dark time" in their life. You kind of want to be there for them, help in some menial way. At the very least; be a friend. However, a miserable, sore loser, can't handle that friendship. They use and abuse it. (Lesson learned) Just as needy as they were throughout their dark time is as needy as they will be to bring you down to their dark pit as well. Not all people that go through dark times do this only the sore loser!

Most of their hurt feelings come from sheer embarrassment. That's where sore comes from. Hurt. You don't succeed at your intended purpose. Trying to live up to the sham of a life you've created. I love the phrase fake it until you make it, but that doesn't imply being a sore loser behind the things you've faked being exposed, right? It's okay to have vulnerability, insecurity, and defeat! <--Oh this message is strictly for the sore loser--> Just don't remain in misery. Don't remain in drama. Don't remain in your insecurities. Get out of your funk! One game you may win, another you may lose. Better luck next time. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start again. Reshuffle the cards, it's time for a new hand! Oh, and when you get a hand you're proud of- you don't have to show it. Play your moves, play that grand hand. Your eventual success will speak for ITSELF. At least it should (side-eye) No need to boast. No need to be conniving. The game will play in your favor...eventually. Don't be sore, be super! 

Good luck in life,