Life is such a gift! You haven't the time nor the energy to focus on negativity, animosity, dissension, excuses or games! Someone once said, "Water in the oceans can't sink a ship full of cargo, unless that same water fills it; likewise, negativity can not take over your life unless you accept and take it in!" Choose NOT to!
Some people, which is funny, because commonly they're the very people that boast positivity, maturity and righteousness; seem to cause their own negativity and then frustratingly blame everyone else! They ultimately are the problem, as well as, the solution but are so busy living in deception (fooling no one but themselves I might add) that they con themselves into believing they're above any and ALL pettiness. Why though?
It's strange...weird...
These type people- now follow me here:
You confront them to place it behind you.
They deny, lie or manipulate.
They turn the confrontation around.
You get frustrated with their manipulation.
They're upset with you that you're frustrated.
They apologize inadvertently.
You accept, tired of frustration.
You pray to forgive them truly.
You move on.
The cycle starts over.
It's a NEVER-ending saga!
That is, unless, you cut them out of your life cold turkey! But since life is a gift, not to be thrown out like yesterday's garbage, you're not evil to them.
Trouble with that is they adamantly continue to regain your friendship and trust through that window you leave cracked.
You, trying to remember Christianity, accept their apologies and attempt to move forward with them.
...they do something wrong to you....
A NEVER-ENDING saga
*Truth is...people will be people. We are strange fruit*
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