1. When dealing with hectic daily schedules, like work, it could seem difficult to make time to spend together. Cut that issue off at the head- Make the time! It'll take extra effort at first, and some compromising on the logistics (where, when, for how long, etc.) but once it's established; you're back smooth sailing :-)
2. Response time is critical. When replying, confirming or denying. How do you respond to conflict? How you handle or, not handle, praise. How often do you accept or reject new and different ideas? It's all relevant. It all matters and it all can add value or devalue your new relationship.
Just a couple of things to think about as you begin and maintain your new relationship. Make time for each other both physically (seeing each other) and emotionally (genuinely set aside time to concern yourself with how your significant other thinks or feels about situations, no matter how small) Consciously map out TIME for each other (even if it's a short, simple, and sweet Thinking of u text )
Always think- little ripples can eventually make a BIG splash! Especially if you allow it, and this can be positive or negative, right? So let's at the very least start off in the positive!
Use your time wisely! Have fun getting to know each other!
xoxo
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