Who ever said that you have the right to call someone at the last minute (because your previous plan fell through, no doubt) and attempt to disrupt their plans assuming they have nothing better to do!!
I DON'T THINK SO!
A foolish person would consider the invitation flattering, but it just seems inconsiderate on the part of said person, to appear out of no where requesting your company. I'm sure you knew of these plans prior to the day, and even if it is impromptu; why all of a sudden an interest in the one person you haven't spoken to in weeks/months?! Get real!
Ladies! And gents too, lesson for the day:
Don't be someone's rebound or crutch! Now, be clear; if this is your nature (to at will and random be used as recreation for another persons pleasure; by all means-Do you!) However, for the more mature of us (me), don't settle for that! A person will do only what you allow, contrary to popular belief. Be better than that! Expect more! Be an example!
You may not even be remotely interested, but especially if you are, make them earn your time! It's not something they can borrow! So say, "No. Better luck next time. Give me more notice."
They'll call back, but next time they'll factor in the fact that, yes, you have a life too! A good life at that, and if they want to be apart they'll respect that you're not sitting around waiting on the phone to ring and they're on the other end of the line!
~And I'm out~
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