My Take-Insecure

I’m late to the Insecure craze but I’ve gone back to season one and watched at the start of the quarantine.  From my view; Molly and Issa have had the same “in your face, tumultuous” banter the entire series. At Issa’s event in Baldwin Hills, season one for instance, the fight was very reminiscent of the fight at the Block Party during this past season. Calling each other out and hitting below the belt with personal jabs🤷🏾‍♀️ For me female friendships are surface, I’m private by nature, so I’ve never been the type of girlfriend that spills intimate “secrets” I’m a great listener and will give feedback when asked. But female relationships for me have been having those around me that have something in common with me and we enjoy each other’s company...laughing, supporting one another, or just being a sounding board...and I’m out ✌️ when or IF it gets too toxic. However, (unpopular opinion) while everyone is saying Molly is a toxic friend; I think she and Issa mirror each other. I think sometimes people in relationships grow or mature and most times the other person is not in the same level so what would be a mirror image to you, has turned into a “toxic” relationship. No! Just call it what it it...Issa desires to do, or see, things differently and now all the traits about herself that brought her and her best friend together are irksome, annoying, and downright unacceptable to Issa.  

I’ll be watching next season along with everyone else and I’m looking forward to seeing what’s in store for their friendship AND what’s going to happen between she and Lawrence now that he’s expecting a baby with Condola.

25 Days of Christmas (Day 25)

Open gifts and enjoy family!

Photo courtesy of County Living! Update to follow...as I’m still playing Santa and assembling a Barbie Dream House 😓 

...then baking cookies...the kids were sleep...Karson woke up to eat at 3:30am...prayerfully Khloé stays asleep...baking cookies...it’s STILL my tradition with or without them 🙄 

Jesus be a wide awake spirit in the upcoming hours!

25 Days of Christmas (Day 24)

Bake cookies for Santa and Christmas Movie Marathon

Cookies courtesy of Mommy and Khloé

Hot Cocoa bombs courtesy of Indulgence Sweets & Treats 

25 Days of Christmas (Day 23)

Have a zoom reconnection with friends and or family! 

25 Days of Christmas (Day 21)

Wrap Christmas Presents 

25 Days of Christmas (Day 22)

Christmas Dance Party

I can always count on my daughter, whom absolutely loves to sing and dance, to be my dance partner during my shenanigans!

25 Days of Christmas (Day 20)

Attend holiday church service 

This is the last Sunday before Christmas so most, if not all, churches are hosting or paying special attention to the gift of Christ during this service. 

I attended Lily Grove Missionary Baptist Church by way of Facebook. Other services to stream or view LIVE that I suggest are: 

Bethel Evangelistic Church 

The Potter’s House