If and when someone says you're not cut out for something, or you're not good enough for something or someone~Prove them WRONG! Don't get mad, infact smile! It confuses you're enemies. Yes, they're enemies, because if someone's not for you; they're against you. If they don't know about it, now friends; they're not against you. Or if they support you, but maybe don't agree with you or they're not on the fighting lines with you; they're not necessarily your enemy (smile here) I just don't want folks running around thinking everyone's their enemy! Hahaha!
Anywho, you should know what I mean! The point is. Don't allow people to steal, kill or destroy your dreams and positive thoughts! You own them! No one can deny the power thereof. Be a fighter for what you want or believe in. Because if you don't believe in yourself; who the hell will?!?!?
Like Nike said, Just Do It!
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Monday, July 5, 2010
Khrystian Tid-bit
Go for IT! Do the impossible and be Enthusiastic about it! Happy Make IT Happen Monday!
Monday, June 28, 2010
NEVER really single!
Okay ladies and gentlemen: Over the age of 25, you're NEVER really single. You may not be in a monogamous relationship, but as much as when you first meet someone, you proclaim, "I'm single!" You're NOT! There are loose-ends, off again-on again relationships, honey dips, cutty buddies, booty calls, "friends", and we can't forget the oh-so-popular PROVERBIAL rebound! Call them any name you want, other than "significant other", but trust me; you have them. And I say them, because for some of us; there are more than just one!
This person, to whom you are actually involved with (no matter how infrequent) is the person(s) that you ignore the moment you call yourself trying to assume a new relationship with someone else. They are the person, more than likely, that doesn't know about your infatuation with the new "boo". They are usually last to find out, especially when it comes to just how serious you are with the new "boo". Heck, sometimes they don't find out until the facebook photoalbum of your nuptials!! EGAD!
You may engage the loose-end or elude to the fact that you've taken an interest in someone other than them (and by that I mean through ignoring calls, not so available behavior, irritability, any bizarre changed behaviors, inadequaces in bed, or just totally not into them in bed, etc.,) however, you still continue to dangle the bait (call every now and again, send a nude pic, send a "lovely" email or text informing them of how much you love, admire, respect and miss them, evasiveness, ommission of details, treat them to brunch, drinks, etc.)...because let's face it...you don't know how far you'll actually get with your new "boo". They may turn out to be so totally not the one, and rather than risk being...dare I say it...ALONE...you string your loose-end along for the ride. Is this fair? I think NOT, but is it realistic...mos DEF!
Speaking to one of my married friends, I indulged her in this conversation of witts...shortly. A great catch...sure they're out there, they may even be "single", but I'm sure behind EVERY "single", "available", "great catch" there is a loose-end that needs to be tied up (knotted, cut, and dead-bolted pulease!) at least before you indulge into a fresh and new relationship. Take it from me; tested, tried and true, it tremendously saves on confusion, ackwardness, hurt feelings, long-term issues and the inevitable break-up.
GOOD dating is so enjoyable, fun, motivating, and ALL that other good stuff, and NO!, please don't tell each person you date about the other person/people you date (that's just plain old goofy!) You date as many as as often as you like...umm hello?! Take it from me! However, when you change the game and make it into a monogamous relationship, your loose ends need to be cut off.
Single?! Be single...the test to see if you're REALLY single or not; is if you don't have ANY explainatioms to give to NOT one person! But guess what?! After 25! You're NEVER really single...unless of course you live in cave and haven't ever had any type of relationship in you're life! Go figure! " (wicked grin)
Happy Not Really "Single" LOL!
This person, to whom you are actually involved with (no matter how infrequent) is the person(s) that you ignore the moment you call yourself trying to assume a new relationship with someone else. They are the person, more than likely, that doesn't know about your infatuation with the new "boo". They are usually last to find out, especially when it comes to just how serious you are with the new "boo". Heck, sometimes they don't find out until the facebook photoalbum of your nuptials!! EGAD!
You may engage the loose-end or elude to the fact that you've taken an interest in someone other than them (and by that I mean through ignoring calls, not so available behavior, irritability, any bizarre changed behaviors, inadequaces in bed, or just totally not into them in bed, etc.,) however, you still continue to dangle the bait (call every now and again, send a nude pic, send a "lovely" email or text informing them of how much you love, admire, respect and miss them, evasiveness, ommission of details, treat them to brunch, drinks, etc.)...because let's face it...you don't know how far you'll actually get with your new "boo". They may turn out to be so totally not the one, and rather than risk being...dare I say it...ALONE...you string your loose-end along for the ride. Is this fair? I think NOT, but is it realistic...mos DEF!
Speaking to one of my married friends, I indulged her in this conversation of witts...shortly. A great catch...sure they're out there, they may even be "single", but I'm sure behind EVERY "single", "available", "great catch" there is a loose-end that needs to be tied up (knotted, cut, and dead-bolted pulease!) at least before you indulge into a fresh and new relationship. Take it from me; tested, tried and true, it tremendously saves on confusion, ackwardness, hurt feelings, long-term issues and the inevitable break-up.
GOOD dating is so enjoyable, fun, motivating, and ALL that other good stuff, and NO!, please don't tell each person you date about the other person/people you date (that's just plain old goofy!) You date as many as as often as you like...umm hello?! Take it from me! However, when you change the game and make it into a monogamous relationship, your loose ends need to be cut off.
Single?! Be single...the test to see if you're REALLY single or not; is if you don't have ANY explainatioms to give to NOT one person! But guess what?! After 25! You're NEVER really single...unless of course you live in cave and haven't ever had any type of relationship in you're life! Go figure! " (wicked grin)
Happy Not Really "Single" LOL!
Write 'Em Down!
Goals! How many of us have them?! Hopefully, we all do. Take some time to write yours down. Watch how quickly that small affirmation, can begin to offset and turn some things around for you. God gives us the desires of our heart, so surely what's for you is for YOU! (my mom's favorite thing to say) This world is BIG and GRAND! There's room enough for everyone's success!!
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There's your dose of positive energy from me to you! Take it! Run with it! It's your's! Ignite!
Here's to chasing your DREAMS!
XOXO,
Khrystian Nichole
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There's your dose of positive energy from me to you! Take it! Run with it! It's your's! Ignite!
Here's to chasing your DREAMS!
XOXO,
Khrystian Nichole
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Happy Juneteenth!
Juneteenth, also known as Emancipation Day, is a holiday in the United States (primarily Texas) honoring African American heritage by commemorating the announcement of the abolition of slavery in Texas in 1865. Abraham Lincoln actually issued the Emancipation Proclamation on September 22, 1862, with an effective date of January 1, 1863. Of course the slave owners ignored the law and order given and Texas was resistant to the Emancipation Proclamation.
June 18 is the day Union General Gordon Granger and 2,000 federal troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, to take possession of the state and enforce the emancipation of its slaves. On June 19, 1865, legend has it while standing on the balcony of Galveston’s famous Ashton Villa, Granger read the rights and emanicipation for the slaves. To me, it's Black Folks 4th of July!
Happy Juneteenth! Live! You are FREE (in a sense lol)!
Signed,
Miss Juneteenth 1997
*Shout out to Uncle Buddy's Used Cars* ( I was a spokesmodel for them in 1997 and shot a commercial!
June 18 is the day Union General Gordon Granger and 2,000 federal troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, to take possession of the state and enforce the emancipation of its slaves. On June 19, 1865, legend has it while standing on the balcony of Galveston’s famous Ashton Villa, Granger read the rights and emanicipation for the slaves. To me, it's Black Folks 4th of July!
Happy Juneteenth! Live! You are FREE (in a sense lol)!
Signed,
Miss Juneteenth 1997
*Shout out to Uncle Buddy's Used Cars* ( I was a spokesmodel for them in 1997 and shot a commercial!
Word to the Wise
::Take Heed to those that whisper I love you in one ear and shout I hate you in the other!
Friday, June 11, 2010
Life is Short!
Life is too short, therefore you must:
Live, Learn, Love, Laugh Out Loud, and Lose Track of Time!!!
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