Part Deux!
15. If you play in the mud you're going to get dirty
-Stay away from the so-called rudeboys, bad boys, or any of the other endearing terminologies we've given them. Just like the old saying; you can't turn a hoe (whore) into a housewive...it remains the same! They're FUN! That is all!
16. Be Dora the Explorer
-Have an exciting date with your city. Go with girlfriends or alone. Tested, tried and true; it's better to go alone!
17. Letting go of past relationships isn't saying I hate you; it's saying, I love me!
-Ladies, leave the exes alone; it's a reason why you're NOT with them. Stop siking yourself out.
18. Being alone is perfectly ok, as long as you're NOT lonely.
19. Don't block your blessings!
-Try to be a nice, inviting person! It's not you against the world, okay?! Don't openly male-bash! Don't take personal frustrations (which nine times out of ten; we cause ourselves) and use them as a conversation peice. Please, please, please for the love of ALL things Louis Vuitton; DO NOT air your dirty laundry! Also, wait on the ring. Don't be out wearing a fake (or real) diamond on your left ring finger. Mr. RIGHT, just saw you wave across the room with that left hand...and sadly kept on walking. :)
20. Be an assest not a liabiltity!
Time in and time out I say it here on my blog first-LEARN something! be a better you; and not for anyone, but yourself!! Have something positive to offer to any relationship!
***Enough*** Hope you've enjoyed my Khrystian tid-bits!
See Part 1 of Single Girl Gems:: here~
http://khrystiannichole.blogspot.com/2010/04/single-girl-gems.html
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Monday, June 7, 2010
~The ONE~
I think I've finally come to a conclusion that you only need ONE! ONE. A single, solitary numero uno ONE time chance at any and everything.
Stay with me here, because I'm almost positive I'll have some naysayers. However; I'm sticking with my conclusion. I'm sticking with the definitive ONE!
Think of the possibilities!
You really, if you think about it, only need or are required to need only ONE chance to play the winning lottery ticket and win millions! You only need ONE time to change you're life and give it to God! You need but ONE time to fall in love to know that person's the ONE! You need ONE great opportunity in life to catapult your career into something great! That ONE meeting is the chance you get to prove yourself. The ONE time you open your mouth for the first time is the ONE time everyONE forms an opinion about you!
ONE is the amount of time you are born and that you die! ONE lifetime! It's also the only time you'll have your first and your last! It's the only ONE of its kind. The first and only beginning and ending! ONE! Tyrese Gibson sang a song about it that I love! ONE! It matters what you do with it!
Seriously, what you do with that ONE and only chance or time is detrimental. It can't be taken lightly! You either maximize your moment, or you crumble! You get ONE; it's up to you to take control of it. Make it your ONE moment to shine as bright as a shining star.
All you need is ONE! What have you/are you going to do with your ONE?!
Here's to making the ONE count~
Khrystian Nichole
Stay with me here, because I'm almost positive I'll have some naysayers. However; I'm sticking with my conclusion. I'm sticking with the definitive ONE!
Think of the possibilities!
You really, if you think about it, only need or are required to need only ONE chance to play the winning lottery ticket and win millions! You only need ONE time to change you're life and give it to God! You need but ONE time to fall in love to know that person's the ONE! You need ONE great opportunity in life to catapult your career into something great! That ONE meeting is the chance you get to prove yourself. The ONE time you open your mouth for the first time is the ONE time everyONE forms an opinion about you!
ONE is the amount of time you are born and that you die! ONE lifetime! It's also the only time you'll have your first and your last! It's the only ONE of its kind. The first and only beginning and ending! ONE! Tyrese Gibson sang a song about it that I love! ONE! It matters what you do with it!
Seriously, what you do with that ONE and only chance or time is detrimental. It can't be taken lightly! You either maximize your moment, or you crumble! You get ONE; it's up to you to take control of it. Make it your ONE moment to shine as bright as a shining star.
All you need is ONE! What have you/are you going to do with your ONE?!
Here's to making the ONE count~
Khrystian Nichole
Basic Event Etiquette 101
Through the years I've hosted and attended many events, parties, get togethers, so and so forth; so now I have compiled a simple list of do's and don'ts and why's for hosts and guests! Enjoy and feel free to add to them!
If the host doesn't have kids or pets don't bring yours! Don't Ask! Don't Tell! That means don't even ask if you can bring your kids or bring your damn dog! If the host has kids/animals they will usually specify whether the event is kid/animal friendly.
For an informal party-Ask if there's anything you could bring. The host will either say no or suggest you bring something specific. It NEVER hurts to ask. It's a polite gesture and it speaks volumes about your character!
For a formal party- Bring a gift. It doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. Again, it speaks volumes about your character.
Don't invite yourself. If you didn't get an invite, build a bridge and get over it. If they are someone you're close to, maybe your invite got lost in the mail...eerr, maybe not; but don't pout and make a big deal like you're two years old.
***RSVP*** (This is a BIG deal especially since soooooo many people clearly don't know or understand the proper etiquette of Répondez sil vous plaît!) Unless it specifies something different like: please only respnd with regrets. RSVP means let us know regardless if you're coming or NOT! The host obviously needs to have an accurate account of their guests! Hello?! Get you some manners and class please!
Don't crash! You may just get your feelings hurt and be asked to leave! In the words of the Backstreet Boys, "bye, bye, bye, byeeeeee!"
READ the damn invite! I.E. directions, special requests/instructions, themes, registries...It can happen, trust me, that you lose the invite and it's perfectly acceptable to call and double check. However, do not call the host or guest of honor on the day of the event, nor the hours up until the event and certainly not during the event asking a billion questions that you could have easily confirmed the day or days before! It's extremely frustrating and rude to do that! It's also one of my pet peeves!
Map quest/Google is your friend! Use it! It's convenient and it saves you from calling the host (my personal favorite) as the party is going on to get directions or driving around for an hour lost and mad!
Put away the cell phone, I mean my goodness; whatever did we do before our trusty cell phones. Plain and simple you look rude, bored or pre-occupied.
Don't forget the most important accessory- A smile! It goes a long way and it's inviting!
If the host doesn't have kids or pets don't bring yours! Don't Ask! Don't Tell! That means don't even ask if you can bring your kids or bring your damn dog! If the host has kids/animals they will usually specify whether the event is kid/animal friendly.
For an informal party-Ask if there's anything you could bring. The host will either say no or suggest you bring something specific. It NEVER hurts to ask. It's a polite gesture and it speaks volumes about your character!
For a formal party- Bring a gift. It doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. Again, it speaks volumes about your character.
Don't invite yourself. If you didn't get an invite, build a bridge and get over it. If they are someone you're close to, maybe your invite got lost in the mail...eerr, maybe not; but don't pout and make a big deal like you're two years old.
***RSVP*** (This is a BIG deal especially since soooooo many people clearly don't know or understand the proper etiquette of Répondez sil vous plaît!) Unless it specifies something different like: please only respnd with regrets. RSVP means let us know regardless if you're coming or NOT! The host obviously needs to have an accurate account of their guests! Hello?! Get you some manners and class please!
Don't crash! You may just get your feelings hurt and be asked to leave! In the words of the Backstreet Boys, "bye, bye, bye, byeeeeee!"
READ the damn invite! I.E. directions, special requests/instructions, themes, registries...It can happen, trust me, that you lose the invite and it's perfectly acceptable to call and double check. However, do not call the host or guest of honor on the day of the event, nor the hours up until the event and certainly not during the event asking a billion questions that you could have easily confirmed the day or days before! It's extremely frustrating and rude to do that! It's also one of my pet peeves!
Map quest/Google is your friend! Use it! It's convenient and it saves you from calling the host (my personal favorite) as the party is going on to get directions or driving around for an hour lost and mad!
Put away the cell phone, I mean my goodness; whatever did we do before our trusty cell phones. Plain and simple you look rude, bored or pre-occupied.
Don't forget the most important accessory- A smile! It goes a long way and it's inviting!
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
June Newsletter!
Crowd Pleasers Entertainment has published it's first of many more to come Newsletter!! It's simple, it's easy to read, and it's invaluable!!
Crowd Pleasers Newsletter!
Crowd Pleasers Newsletter!
Sunday, May 30, 2010
~Dating Etiquette 101~
It really doesn't matter if it's the first date or the 100 hundreth date. It doesn't matter if it's a group date or just you and the honey...here are some rules that I've come up with in order to help you be alittle more engaging and p.c. in your date life-
Rule number 1- Be punctual
~No one wants to be waiting idle for you. It's polite to be ready, or be on time for the pick up! It gives the impression that you don't care if you're late. It's also thoughtless. If you know you're running late...call first, and SOON!
Rule number 2- Put the cell phone AWAY!
~You're on a date and it's extremely rude to all parties involved if you're phone is ringing or buzzing every 5 minutes, if you're answering the phone, leaving every second to answer the phone, texting, checking emails, or playing games on your phone instead of participating in your date. You just flat out suck! Of course the only reasonable exclusion would be emergencies; but trust...unless you're President Obama and there is a nuclear bomb about to destroy the world as we know it, I'm sure it can be handled in a timely and polite manner.
Rule number 3- MEN: Be chivalrous, LADY: Let him!
~Have manners and allow a person to have manners and respect for you. Nothing more attractive than seeing a lady and a gentleman together.
Rule number 4- Look into their eyes
~There's nothing worse than someone that can't look into your eyes when they speak. It's like you have something to hide or you're really not into the date. Don't act distracted or bored.
Rule number 5- (my personal pet peeve) No pretention
You're not a used car sales man...You're not selling yourself to the date! Please don't wear medals, accolades, or references on your chest. The Great you will indeed shine through, especially if you're pure and real!
*I can only handle 5 today! More another time*
Happy Courting~
Rule number 1- Be punctual
~No one wants to be waiting idle for you. It's polite to be ready, or be on time for the pick up! It gives the impression that you don't care if you're late. It's also thoughtless. If you know you're running late...call first, and SOON!
Rule number 2- Put the cell phone AWAY!
~You're on a date and it's extremely rude to all parties involved if you're phone is ringing or buzzing every 5 minutes, if you're answering the phone, leaving every second to answer the phone, texting, checking emails, or playing games on your phone instead of participating in your date. You just flat out suck! Of course the only reasonable exclusion would be emergencies; but trust...unless you're President Obama and there is a nuclear bomb about to destroy the world as we know it, I'm sure it can be handled in a timely and polite manner.
Rule number 3- MEN: Be chivalrous, LADY: Let him!
~Have manners and allow a person to have manners and respect for you. Nothing more attractive than seeing a lady and a gentleman together.
Rule number 4- Look into their eyes
~There's nothing worse than someone that can't look into your eyes when they speak. It's like you have something to hide or you're really not into the date. Don't act distracted or bored.
Rule number 5- (my personal pet peeve) No pretention
You're not a used car sales man...You're not selling yourself to the date! Please don't wear medals, accolades, or references on your chest. The Great you will indeed shine through, especially if you're pure and real!
*I can only handle 5 today! More another time*
Happy Courting~
Sex and the City 2
Most Fashionable- Samantha
Best Make-Over- Miranda
Best Story line- Charlotte/Carrie
Story most like my own- Carrie
Best Looking- Charlotte
Loved the fashions, loved the shoes! What's there not to love!
Best Make-Over- Miranda
Best Story line- Charlotte/Carrie
Story most like my own- Carrie
Best Looking- Charlotte
Loved the fashions, loved the shoes! What's there not to love!
**Random Rant** This Is It!
You must really NEED to be careful the words which part from your lips!! The 'universe' i.e. God has a way of surrounding and bringing you exactly what you ask for....OR NOT!
I LOATHE liars and deceptive or misleading or manipulating people! They are such scum of the earth...especially when there is NO detrimental need. Meaning; your life or the lives of your family are not affected! I was taught at a young age, "If you lie, you'll steal and if you steal; you'll kill!" There's such TRUTH there! Liars have the capability to steal and kill dreams, goals, self-esteem, worth, joy, life. All the above! Don't believe me; Satan is the father of lies and deception; and we know what he's capable of! He took a third of the Angels with him for goodness sake!!
Why lie people?!
Is it so hard to be honest, upfront and an open book!!! Who is it going to hurt to be truthful and honest and forthright???
I have come to the conclusion that liars lie. That's what they do! That's what they'll always do! And the sad part is; they do it just cuz they want to. They know the consequences of their actions and behavior yet, they do it anyway. There is no reason for me to indulge in this rant anymore because it's just the WAYS of this world. I will just stop "inviting" them into my life by speaking, writing or uttering my faithful phrases as- "I can't stand a liar." This is it people, it's a done deal!
XOXO,
Khrystian Nichole
And to any liars reading this- Get it together...it's not that serious. REALLY!
I LOATHE liars and deceptive or misleading or manipulating people! They are such scum of the earth...especially when there is NO detrimental need. Meaning; your life or the lives of your family are not affected! I was taught at a young age, "If you lie, you'll steal and if you steal; you'll kill!" There's such TRUTH there! Liars have the capability to steal and kill dreams, goals, self-esteem, worth, joy, life. All the above! Don't believe me; Satan is the father of lies and deception; and we know what he's capable of! He took a third of the Angels with him for goodness sake!!
Why lie people?!
Is it so hard to be honest, upfront and an open book!!! Who is it going to hurt to be truthful and honest and forthright???
I have come to the conclusion that liars lie. That's what they do! That's what they'll always do! And the sad part is; they do it just cuz they want to. They know the consequences of their actions and behavior yet, they do it anyway. There is no reason for me to indulge in this rant anymore because it's just the WAYS of this world. I will just stop "inviting" them into my life by speaking, writing or uttering my faithful phrases as- "I can't stand a liar." This is it people, it's a done deal!
XOXO,
Khrystian Nichole
And to any liars reading this- Get it together...it's not that serious. REALLY!
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