Ain't Nothing Like

...a dose of your OWN medicine!

...a good READ!

...being put in YOUR place!

...reaping what you SOW!

...a PERFECT fit!

Feel free to add...

Loyal to a Fault

I'm so loyal. I'm so focused. I try and treat people the same way I'd like to be treated. I'm not a fan of "fast" and new friends. It takes awhile for me to consider you anything other than, "someone I know" because I like to be certain of others' character before I associate or attach myself to them. 

With that said: If I call you a friend I'm a friend. I can be a confidant. I'm a sister. I'm a vault, locked and sealed. I'm a stylist. I'm a tutor. I'm a coach, some may say drill sergeant lol. I'm a cheerleader. I'm a supporter and an advocate. I'm a companion. I'm brutally honest and dangerously loving. Above all else: you don't have to doubt MY intentions with you. 

Cross me once, though...we're through. I don't have time to give benefits of doubt. I have enough true blood FAMILY to sustain me. Real sweet tea!

I won't be rude, but please don't take my kindness towards you for weakness. I wouldn't mistreat a flea, if given the opportunity, but please respect my space, my decision to "dismiss" you and my cordial attitude towards you as a means to an end....

The end

Without Me

Based on a text convo encountered....The first verse and pre chorus of this song couldn't have said it any better than if I simply snap shot the text and aired all the dirty laundry!!! 

Out of line! And for no good reason! Listen; if you have a new chick professing  her love for you, and you're showcasing your "love" so hard on social media sites by posting something as idiotic as watching television to prove how "happy" and "in love" you are every other day, then please MOVE AROUND! We get it....you pay your cable bill, as my lovely line-sister said. Lol!  Stop communicating that, I'm dating but I'm not married, engaged nor do I have a girlfriend where I'm in an exclusive relationship

Or

I will always love you more than anything or anyone 

It's NOT cool...at all! If I had a new "man" I certainly wouldn't want him expressing those truths, facts, and especially lies to his ex-girlfriend in any form or fashion! So...I say all that to present you these song lyrics: Download it if you haven't already!

"Without Me" Fantasia Barrino feat. Kelly Rowland and Missy Elliot

Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

[Verse 1: Fantasia]

Really gon' make me

Expose you for exactly what you are, you are

And I'm feeling a little wavy

So right now I don't mind pulling your card, yeah

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

[Pre-chorus: Fantasia (Kelly)]

And as hard as you try

To hide reality, why

We know the truth

(So act brand new if you want to)

[Chorus]

But what would you be without me?

Where would you be without me?

So what you blowing up just a little

They knowing you a little

Don't give a finger in the middle

Cause little nigga you will never be without me

Where would you be without me?

So what you blowing up just a little

They knowing you a little

Don't give a finger in the middle

Cause little nigga you will never be

Oh na na, oh na

Oh na na, oh na

Oh na na, oh na

Oh na na, oh na

[Verse 2: Kelly Rowland]

You tell 'em that you make big moves

But tell 'em what you really do

Do you really wanna play this game

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

(Fake shit will kill you, boy I know the real you)

You should tell 'em what you really like

Tell 'em you ain't bought that life

I've put you on, I let you shine

Now you so fly... shit blows my mind

Oh, oh

[Pre-chorus: Fantasia (Kelly)]

And as hard as you try

To hide reality, why

We know the truth

(So act brand new if you want to)

[Chorus]

But what would you be without me?

Where would you be without me?

So what you blowing up just a little

They knowing you a little

Don't give a finger in the middle

Cause little nigga you will never be without me

Where would you be without me?

So what you blowing up just a little

They knowing you a little

Don't give a finger in the middle

Cause little nigga you will never be

[Verse 3: Missy Elliot]

Boy you think I'm stupid?

What you think I'm clueless?

You keep chasing them girls

Boy you get the deuces

I'm sick of your excuses

Without me how can you do it?

Do bad about myself

Nigga your dick useless

Dude I don't need your sex (your sex)

I'm moving to the next (the next)

You frontin' man, you stuntin' man

You're worser than my ex

Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha

You think that shit funny?

We know the truth boy, keep it one hundred

[Pre-chorus: Fantasia (Kelly)]

And as hard as you try

To hide reality, why

We know the truth

(So act brand new if you want to)

[Chorus]

But what would you be without me?

Where would you be without me?

So what you blowing up just a little

They knowing you a little

Don't give a finger in the middle

Cause little nigga you will never be without me

Where would you be without me?

So what you blowing up just a little

They knowing you a little

Don't give a finger in the middle

Cause little nigga you will never be

Be Selective

Jaleel White posted something so amazing today. You may remember him as Steve Urkel. What he said; it wasn't anything prophetic, mind boggling, or anything unheard of...it was just all in the way he presented the information! 

To sum up: 

Keep those around you that promote growth: spiritual, emotional, artistic, physical and intellectual! Make sure they're stimulating! They're worth keeping around. If they're not...let them go!

"We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone."

xoxo

Misappropriating Your Conjugal Visits

I've NEVER done this...until NOW! But I can't hold my tongue against despicable liars that I've associated with on a "somewhat" friendly level...that is to say; we went to school together! Especially when they claim to be a man of God. 

I don't know what god they're associating themselves with, however; I'm not the one to be lied on when it comes to certain matters.

Do not ever say you've slept with me...EVER! In fact; don't say you sleep with anyone...EVER! Who does that?! 

In my case; even if it was in the unfathomiable abyss of some lunatics imagination, it didn't happen in REALITY! Before I expose the name of the said LOSER in my blog, and I will; I DO, however, want to confront him directly. The person that exposed the liar doesn't want me to say anything because they feel it's redundant knowing that the dude is, in fact, a liar and no one believes him anyway. However, I work entirely TOO hard to maintain a reputation that I deem as important as my first name to have anyone lie on it. A LOSER at that! I'm calling him a LOSER, not because of tangible or monetary things, but because; if you have to lie on anything...especially your penis (my parents read my blog, so I wouldn't dare use the verbiage I would say to him...plus a Lady doesn't speak that way! Hi Mom!)...You were a LOSER to begin with!! 

Speak the TRUTH about me and I have NO problems! There's a lot that could be said about me, but what he's said or still is saying couldn't be any further from the truth than if I was writing this blog from Jupiter!! So, with that; a liar has to be exposed time after time, if needed. Expose Satan and he does flee! I know that to be true. Darkness can't exist in the Light, but Light can exist in darkness...think on these things! Until then...stay tuned...

Repentance (the 2014 film)

So...I didn't like Repentance at all! It was silly as opposed to what I'd hoped would've been ingenious. I originally, after seeing previews, thought it was a film to better expose and enlighten individuals on mental illness. The thriller, Misery with Kathy Bates, did a better job of exposing mental illness than Repentance! Heck, Jay and Silent Bob did a better job than Repentance! No tea, no shade (as the kids say) it's just my opinion. It was just an odd experience of a film. We got the point...the storyline was there...it just wasn't the best depiction of art imitating life by way of acting in a sensible matter. 

But hey; you be the judge! I'm no Siskel or Ebert! I'm just Khrystian Nichole ;-)

Go see it and tell me what you think...

Friends With Ex's

I've never ended on bad terms in the slightest with any of my Ex's. Ex-friends, co-workers, boyfriends. When it comes to a boyfriend, in fact; we ended still being there for each other through some pretty tough and emotional times. We love each other, care for each other, and will always have a certain level of respect with each other!  Any past relationship or not so relationship I've had, ever ends badly, or with any ill-will or bitterness towards each other.  Why would it?

With all of that being said: we not about to be meeting for lunch or dinner, chatting it up on the phone catching up, or self-imposing ourselves into each other's new relationships.

If we're not together.  We have moved on. Plain and simple.  I personally don't feel the need to communicate daily, or even weekly to keep in touch.  Isn't that what social media is for?  It's un-evasive and you can "keep up with" each other that way.  Through social media you can see the highs and lows of a person's life.  You'll see the moments they care to share and are willing to share.  If you want to reach out through, "liking" a photo or status, "re-tweeting" something, or "favoring" it.  That's fine.  All that other foolishness is unnecessary and inappropriate. 

That's about as friendly as we need to be. Keeping it copacetic.